SUPPORT FOR PARENTS & CARERS
If you’re worried about a child, you’re in the right place. We’re here to support you, guide you, and help keep your child safe.
Understanding What’s Going On:
As children grow up, it’s completely normal for them to test boundaries, become more independent, and explore new experiences. But for parents and carers, it can be hard to work out what’s typical teenage behaviour – and what might be a sign that something isn’t right.
Exploitation can affect any child, no matter their background. What matters most is spotting changes early and knowing where to turn for help.
Why Children Become Vulnerable:
Abusers deliberately target children because they are still developing confidence, identity, and emotional independence. Some young people may be more at risk if they are dealing with challenges such as:
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Feeling isolated or having low self-esteem
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Being bullied
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Struggling at school
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Living in care
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Family difficulties or breakdowns
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Disability or special educational needs
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Previous experience of abuse or trauma
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Bereavement
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Financial hardship
These factors never mean a child is to blame – they are simply things that can make young people more visible to abusers who want to take advantage.
Common Signs of Exploitation:
Some behaviours are completely normal for teenagers – like pushing boundaries, wanting more privacy, or spending lots of time online. But when risky behaviours happen alongside sudden changes, it may be a sign that a child is being groomed or exploited. Try and look out for:
Spending Time With Much Older People (In Person Or Online)
Increased Secrecy, Defensiveness Or Sudden Mood Changes
Lots Of New Messages Or Calls, Especially From Unknown Numbers
New & Expensive Items That They Can’t Explain
A Noticeable Change In Personality
Loss Of Interest In Hobbies Or Usual Friends
Spending Long Periods Of Time Online, Particularly Late At Night
Going Missing, Not Coming Home, Or Staying Out Unexpectedly
Being Vague About Where They Have Been Or Who They Are With
How Safe and Sound Can Help:
You’re not alone. Our specialist team supports parents and carers facing concerns about exploitation, whether online or in the community. We can offer:
Advice On Online Safety
We help you understand the apps, games and platforms your child uses – and how to manage risks without invading their privacy.
1-To-1 Support
Our Family Support Worker can work with you to understand what’s happening, talk through concerns, and help you protect your child.
Support In Talking To Your Child
We guide you on how to start difficult conversations and keep communication open.
Ongoing Support For The Whole Family
Exploitation affects everyone, not just the young person. We work with you to rebuild safety, confidence and trust.
Speak To Us
If you’re worried about your child or just need advice, you can contact our Family Support Worker directly for confidential guidance. You are not alone. We’re here to support you, your child, and your family every step of the way.
A PARENTS STORY
“She and others in her friendship group were targeted by a man online – who turned out to be living abroad – but luckily she eventually told her foster carer what was going on.”